As a baby
I cannot have been an easy baby. I cried a lot, and I could not be comforted by any of the usual means. My mother learned in my first days and weeks not to try to comfort me by lifting my body into her arms: it would stiffen, and my crying would become more intense. Equally I could be lying in my cot quite content, and if anyone lifted my body I would immediately show signs of distress. It seems I hated such body contact from the moment I left my mother’s womb.
Does the phrase “lifting my body” sound odd to you? It sounds odd to me. It would have been more usual to say, “lifting me”. At once we meet a recurring feature of Asperger Syndrome. Many individuals with Asperger Syndrome perceive their body in a non‐standard way. To put it bluntly, my body is not securely part of me. It is part of my environment. I perceive my hands as part of me, and my eyes, and my lips and my tongue and the rest of my vocal apparatus: but the rest of my body less strongly so, and in moments of stress not at all. This limits the confidence that I can have in my body, the control that I feel over it. In technical terms, I have a faulty body schema, which is frequently found in Asperger Syndrome.
It is difficult to explain this in a way that is convincing to a neurotypical person. Do I not talk about “my” feet? Yes, but I also talk about “my house”, and the house is not part of me. Do I not say, “I fell out of bed”? Yes, but that is a conventional form of words by which I communicate with others. I say “I fell out of bed” meaning “my body fell out of bed” (and it does!) just as a blind person may say “I’ll see you tomorrow” meaning “I’ll encounter you tomorrow.” When my knee is injured, do I not feel pain? Of course I feel pain, and it is very unpleasant, and I perceive that the pain comes from my knee. Likewise when my car backfires, I hear the bang, and it too is very unpleasant, and I perceive that the bang comes from my car. But that does not lead me to regard my car as part of me. In this essay I try to say what I mean, and that entails not saying “me” when I mean “my body”.
A mother’s intuition will usually lead her to whatever is best for her baby. It did not take my mother long to learn how to comfort me: put something in my hands. That will do nicely, thank you, Mummy. Now I feel in control. My hands are part of me.
At 7 months I found my feet. No, I don’t mean I began to walk: that took me nearly a further year. I mean I found my feet. Until then, as Mum told me years later, she reckons I didn’t know I had any. To this day they seem awfully far away from me.
I spoke early, and I quickly began to use language for reasoning. Mum once told me that I could reason and be reasoned with before I could walk. Sadly, I have no examples. But it does not surprise me, because it fits with what I am.
For if I am not my body, then what am I? The concept of self is complex, and many philosophers and many psychologists have written many books about it. But my perception is that, primarily, I am my introspective conscious mind: my mental life as I have direct, unmediated awareness of it. Although my mind has a connection with my body, it primarily occupies not the physical realm, but the so‐called Platonic realm. The Platonic realm is where the templates are kept for the objects in the physical realm. In the Platonic realm are many mansions. The gatehouse protects the natural numbers: 0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5… Up the road is another mansion that houses all conceivable pieces of music. Yet a third mansion is home to the genomes of all species of organism, and the Grand Meta‐genome that maps out in addition the genomes of the myriad hypothetical species that never evolved. In a fourth mansion live the Laws of Chess, or their logical equivalent, the tree of all conceivable games of chess. These are of course metaphors, but for me they are compelling metaphors. If the physical realm is God’s handiwork, then the Platonic realm is his design studio.
I am told I walked my first few steps in front of Aunt Babbie on holiday in Shetland. That must have been late July or early August 1950, which means I was about 16 months old. That is quite late, but within the range regarded as normal. I walked on tiptoe. This was blamed on short Achilles tendons in both feet, for which I was given physiotherapy. I have the same slight deformity in the homologous tendon in my right hand: my left hand is normal. Toe walking is common in children with Asperger Syndrome, and I wonder if short Achilles tendons are typically a contributing cause.
A child with Asperger Syndrome is odd. In this essay I seek to be accurate in what I say, but the essay is not meant to give a balanced view of my childhood, because it focuses on the oddities.
A new‐year party
I seem to have a vague memory of the birth of my brother Donald, when I was 2 years 8 months. That may however be a false memory, as there is a gap of a full year between it and my next surviving memory. This one is very clear. It was at the annual new‐year party in my grandparents’ house. It must have been 1 January 1953 when I was 3 years 9 months, because Donald was moving on hands and knees. Now unlike Mum, Dad had not easily learned that my body should be handled as little as possible. Like any father, he wanted to encourage physical play in his young son. I’m sure he was gentle by normal standards, but I’m also sure that he wasn’t nearly careful enough for the child in question. Most children with Asperger Syndrome have somatosensory abnormalities, and while the response to these abnormalities varies enormously from child to child, the tactile defensiveness that I showed from earliest infancy is a frequent response. I never liked Dad’s physical play and it made me very anxious. On this occasion, Dad wanted to show the assembled relatives what a fine sturdy son he had. I was unwilling but Dad prevailed. He was standing facing me, holding my hands, and prompting me to lean back and walk up his legs. I never liked having my feet off the ground, and I was afraid I would get hurt. My feet had reached his knees when I stopped cooperating and my body did not do what Dad expected, with the result that he accidentally dropped it, bringing to pass the very thing I feared. This may have been from a position only a few inches above the floor, but my head banged on the floor and I made a terrible fuss. Gran rubbed butter on the bruise, an old wives’ remedy. I was still upset, but I found it comforting to be the centre of attention. I thought, “The butter is outside the skin and the bruise is under the skin and the skin is watertight: so what good can this do?” It seems I had a scientific and sceptical mindset at the age of three.
How to count
Some time around my fourth birthday we had a visit from a friend and colleague of Dad who was an educational psychologist. This friend was fascinated by my cognitive development and used to test it often, which I loved. Years later I learned that Dad was unhappy about such testing, as he was not sure that it was healthy. On this occasion the friend spread 15 counters on the table in front of me and asked me to count them. I thought, “I’ll show him: I’ll do it the fancy way.” I gathered the counters in pairs using the index and middle fingers of my right hand, reciting, “2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, and 1 is 15.” Dad’s friend was astonished. Cousin Gillian, four years my senior, had taught me to count in pairs like that.
I remember clearly the birth of my sister Fiona when I was four years and one month, and from that time onwards my memories come thick and fast.
How to get dressed
I was very slow in learning to dress myself. Long after I knew what to do and was physically capable of doing it, still I simply would not do it. I would stand there helplessly doing nothing, waiting for Mum’s help, unable to take the initiative. Until now I have always thought that executive dysfunction only became a real problem to me as an adult, but as I write this essay I suddenly recognise the dressing difficulty as executive dysfunction pure and simple. Indeed it is characteristic of my executive dysfunction that it should have first surfaced in this context, for throughout my life it has always been worst early in the day. Mum eventually solved this one by teaching me the procedure as a sequence of verbal prompts, and getting me to memorise the verbal prompts, which I was then able to recite and follow on my own. Over sixty years later, as I get dressed I still hear the verbal prompts in my head.
A world of numbers
Like every child with Asperger Syndrome, I spent most of my time in my own little world, star‐gazing as Dad called it. My particular “own little world” was a world of numbers, and I used to pester Dad to teach me all he could about them. Shortly before my fifth birthday I was taking a walk with him. My feet were alongside his but my mind, as always, was a hundred miles away. He asked me what I was doing and I answered that I was “just thinking”. Some further minutes of silence passed before I asked, “Daddy, is one‐and‐a‐half times one‐and‐a‐half two‐and‐a‐quarter?” After a few seconds of paternal mental arithmetic, he confirmed my conjecture. I can still hear the shocked incomprehension in his voice.
I clearly remember that particular voyage of discovery. I had an accurate concept of halves and quarters. I knew that to multiply a number by 1½ was to add to it half of itself. I had mentally constructed a few cases with whole‐number multiplicands; for example 1½ × 5 is 5 + 2½ which is 7½. I wondered if I could compute 1½ × 1½ in the same kind of way, and I came up with this mental picture:
Half of itself = ½ + ¼
Collecting the bits gave 2¼. I was entirely confident of the mechanics of what I had done, and what I was asking Dad to confirm was its legitimacy. I was of course pleased to have got the right answer, but the greater part of my delight lay in the reassurance that fractions behave in the way I thought they ought to. My major insight that day was that mathematical truth could be discovered by just thinking: it did not need to be taught, or learned from the world. That 1½ × 1½ = 2¼ not only was: it had to be. In language that was of course not available to me at that age, mathematical truths are necessary, not contingent. I also gained a feeling of power: I had discovered a source of knowledge that was independent of my parents.
I started at Broughton Primary School in Edinburgh close to my fifth birthday. I clearly remember my first day because it was anxiety‐ridden. Mum and I were in the school secretary’s office for me to be enrolled. The secretary said in a cheery voice, “I’ll go and get the slip,” referring to some piece of routine paperwork. But I didn’t understand what she was referring to, and I was afraid she meant “I’ll go and get the strap.” The strap, or the belt, was an instrument of corporal punishment, and I had been well warned by my parents that I had to behave at school or the strap might be the consequence. I had no idea what I might have done to deserve this on my first day, but I sometimes got into trouble for things I didn’t understand, and I was quite prepared to believe that I might have done something wrong. I can still hear the secretary’s cheery tone of voice, but to infer from her cheery tone that she could not possibly be talking about corporal punishment was beyond my social skills. I never told my parents about this misunderstanding. As a child I was racked with anxiety, as many children (and adults) with Asperger Syndrome are, and this incident shows how easily it can happen.
Primary school teaching in Scotland in the 1950s was very formal. Officially the class size was limited to 40, but in practice it was sometimes over 40. We were arranged in rows, one to a desk, and the teacher taught us from the blackboard at the front. There was no group work, and talking or other interaction between pupils was forbidden. Actually I felt very comfortable with that. Academically I was always the ablest in the class. We were seated in academic order, which meant that I was always in the back left‐hand corner of the room. And it meant that my social skills, which began at rock bottom, remained at rock bottom.
I disliked the 15‐minute morning interval (“playtime”). We were set loose in the tarmac playground with no supervision. Because I hated and feared body contact, I kept as far away from the other children as I could. Throughout 6½ years of primary school, my playtimes were spent at the edge of the playground, standing with my back to the perimeter railings and holding on to them for stability, watching the other children play, and taking evasive action if anyone got too close to me. Throughout my primary schooling I made one friend.
My mother tried to help. She used to invite local children to our house for me to play with. But she made the comic mistake of inviting them in twos. Consequently they played with each other while I sat in the corner with a book. I had no idea that I was supposed to interact with them, that that is why they had been invited. I just thought that Mum liked having children around the place. Again this is typical of the upbringing of children with Asperger Syndrome: the caring adults assume that the child knows what is expected of him, while the child hasn’t a clue. I wish my mother had explained, “Eric, I’ve invited James to come here after school today, and I want you to play with him please: playing with other children is good for you.” I wouldn’t have found it comfortable, but I was an obedient child and I believe I would have tried. Many a time Mum pointed out to me that other children played with each other and I didn’t, but I never understood that there was anything wrong with that; rather I took it in the context of Mum’s constant reassurances that everybody is different. And I knew I was different.
At the age of six I was moved up to the next class, 6 months older, on academic grounds. This meant that I became the youngest in my class by a margin of nearly 6 months. And of course everyone in the new class already had settled friendships. These things probably made my social isolation even worse.
I believe I was intensely unpopular with most of the other children. Not only did I make no effort to socialise, but also I was overly proud of my academic ability and tended to show it off, and unfortunately this was always well received by the teacher. I was inclined to clype – to report misbehaviour to the teacher. There was no element of malice in this: rather, it seemed to me that it was the right thing to do. I continued to clype until the teacher herself told me not to. Throughout primary school I was subjected to very mild bullying – a little deliberate push here and there – but as I hated any body contact, bullying of that sort, however mild, really frightened me. I had absolutely no insight that the bullying was happening because of my behaviour. I was more seriously bullied on just four occasions that I can remember, and never by children that I knew.
This essay says very little about my musical development. Although it was a major feature of my childhood, it was so smooth and trouble‐free that there is little of interest to be said about it in an essay of this kind that focuses on oddities. I showed an aptitude for music from a very young age: one Sunday afternoon at the age of three I announced, “We learned a new tune at Sunday school today and it went like this,” and picked out the tune on the piano with one finger. I am very grateful to my parents for arranging piano lessons for me from the age of six. My teacher Stuart Thyne – scholarly, old‐fashioned and thorough – was the best possible teacher for me. He had a physical disability, walking very slowly, very bent, and I think painfully, with a stick. A bachelor of independent means, he lived with a housekeeper in his luxurious basement flat in the Georgian Edinburgh New Town. He was aged 38 or 39 when I started taking lessons, but I thought he was an old man because of his disability. I practised long and hard every day, at first from a sense of duty, though I did not dislike it, and later from a real love of it. Each summer I competed with great enjoyment, excitement and ambition in the Edinburgh Competition Festival (no connection with the famous Edinburgh Festival) and I had a lot of success. With the benefit of hindsight, I can see that I ought to have made a career in either music or mathematics. Those with Asperger Syndrome often have abilities in these fields.
In the summer of 1959 when I was 10 the family had a very happy holiday in Cheshire with Ken and Barbara Hulme and family, close family friends. On our return to Edinburgh, Mum took me aside for a serious discussion. It was most unlikely to happen, she reassured me – but if, for any reason, Dad and she both became unable to look after me, whom would I like to look after me? Dad and she had come to a reciprocal arrangement with Ken and Barbara, and Mum was entirely confident that I would answer her question as she expected. She knew I could deal with hypotheticals like that without anxiety, and she judged correctly that I had to be kept informed. I floored her by saying Mr Thyne. I felt he understood me better than anyone else did, perhaps even my parents, and I had developed a strong bond.
A very ashamed child
One day when I was about 8 our school teacher was absent and we had a supply teacher. At the start of the day he called me out and said he had a job for me. I take it he had been alerted to my academic ability and thought I would be the best person to help him. But I felt horribly ashamed when he showed me the task. He had prepared a sheet of paper with the 42 desks shown on it and he asked me to fill in the names of the pupils for him. Although I had shared a classroom with these classmates for six hours a day, 200 days a year for about two years, I could name only a handful of them. It was the most embarrassing thing I had ever experienced. Quite apart from having no interest in the other children, I was (and am) largely face‐blind, which is a very common feature of Asperger Syndrome. I don’t know whether we have no interest in people because we can’t recognise them easily, or whether our facial skills don’t develop because we have no interest in people: but certainly the two deficits reinforce each other.
I don’t think my parents ever realised the difficulty I had with faces. Indeed I remember one occasion when I told Mum I didn’t expect to be able to recognise Ken Hulme and she told me not to be so silly. Whenever I was embarrassed at not recognising a face, my strategy was to remain silent, which my parents took as shyness and not ignorance.
My visit to a swimming pool
When I was 9, Dad decided that I should learn to swim. I looked forward to our first visit to the local baths: indeed I was quite excited about it. But when I saw the pool, I was dismayed. Children with Asperger Syndrome need careful preparation for anything new, and I was quite unprepared because my preconceptions were all wrong. I thought the scene would be grey with subdued lighting: instead the lighting was very bright and accentuated the blue chlorinated water. I thought the swimmers would be swimming gently in an orderly manner in lanes: instead they seemed chaotic and some swam energetically. I thought the swimmers would be mostly adults: instead they were mostly children, and – horror – the children were splashing! I thought it would be silent: instead it was noisy, children were shouting, and the acoustic was very echoey. And the water? Dad had assured me that the pool was heated. It was, of course, but from what he said I expected to experience it as warm, and instead I found it very cold indeed. I ventured one foot up to the ankle and would go no farther. Dad encouraged, cajoled, ridiculed and finally ordered me in. I think “ordered” is fair comment: his exact words were, “Look Eric, I’ve paid your admission money and I’m not going to stand here and see it wasted.” I found the water excruciatingly cold (and I think I know why: see my article on the thermal grill illusion). It took me about 10 minutes of all the bravery I could muster to get in up to my chest. I stood in the shallow end of the pool in water 3 feet 6 inches deep (just over 1 metre), and Dad held my hands and encouraged me to kick my legs to bring my body horizontal. He waited for my feet to touch the floor of the pool again, and he let go. But he had misjudged: my feet had not yet reached the floor, and I slipped under the water.
That was one of the two worst moments of my life. (I do not disclose the other one on this website.) Like most children with Asperger Syndrome I had often suffered the distress of sensory overload, but this was a far greater sensory overload than anything in my experience before or since. All my sensory alarm bells rang simultaneously. My mouth and nose filled with water and I think I inhaled a little. The water on my face felt diabolical in its touch, its pressure and its coldness. My vestibular system was mightily confused, I felt sick, and I had no idea which way was up. My visual field was utterly alien: the sensation was of the biggest thing I had ever seen, and it was blue, but the field conveyed no further information and my eyes would not focus. The sound was dead silent and deafening at the same time. The smell of the chlorine was choking. I was in extreme fear, and I was totally paralysed: I tried to work my arms and legs but nothing happened. I was quite sure I was dying. It is not that I believed that brief total immersion in water is necessarily fatal: rather, I just could not conceive that there could possibly be any way back from such a hellish plurality of qualia.
I was probably under the water for less than two seconds before Dad fished me out. I was crying uncontrollably. That was the end of the swimming lesson. Throughout the bus journey home I was still in tears, and Dad asked me to compose myself because, as he explained, he didn’t want Mum to see me in that state. I duly composed myself, and I stayed composed, with difficulty, until we reached home. And the moment I saw Mum I burst into tears again.
My father was a good and caring man, but throughout my childhood he really did not understand what kind of a child he was dealing with, and this episode illustrates it well. He must have realised before the accident how terrified I already was, even if he could not understand why, and I cannot fathom why he did not ask me to confirm that my feet were on the floor before he let go. It does seem to me that, whenever he couldn’t understand my fear, he thought he could safely discount it. In his defence I should add that nothing was known at the time about Asperger Syndrome – I was diagnosed as an adult – and Mum and Dad were bringing up a very odd child without any relevant professional guidance being available to them.
Dad never again suggested that we go swimming.
Back to school
A large proportion of our time in primary school was devoted to the “three Rs”: reading, writing and arithmetic. Especially arithmetic. It was necessary to spend a lot of time on arithmetic in UK schools in those days because of our cumbersome and antiquated £sd money system, with 12 pence or pennies to the shilling, and 20 shillings to the pound. By Primary 6 (around age 10) we would have to do several instances of addition of money each day, like this:
Our teacher would write them on the blackboard, and we would copy them into our jotters, add them up, and raise our hand when we had the answer. Well, this was so easy for me. I simply kept a running total in my head as I copied the figures into my jotter, and proudly raised my hand as soon as the teacher had written the last figure. It hardly added to my popularity among my peers.
Broughton School had a swimming pool, and in the summer term of Primary 6 there was a compulsory swimming period once a week. Mum did an excellent job of preparing me emotionally for this in view of my previous experience, so that my attitude to the pool was merely a strong dislike and not a phobia. It was not as cold as the public baths, and I found the temperature bearable. Our swimming teacher respected my dislike of the water and mercifully allowed me to participate on a casual basis, making no effort to learn to swim.
Some of the boys in the class would take as long as possible to change after the swimming period, in order to miss as much classroom time as possible. This annoyed our class teacher, and after other means had failed she threatened before one swimming period that the last boy back in the classroom would get the belt. Unfortunately she forgot to add, “That is, if he gets back unreasonably late.” At the end of the swimming period I realised too late that I had been ambushed: all the other boys changed at breakneck speed so that I would be back last. Our class teacher of course saw what they were up to and declined to punish me, thus adding to their perception that I was “teacher’s pet”.
One day in Primary 6 we had a visit from a school inspector. He taught us a mathematics lesson about factorials. (6 factorial – written 6! – means 6×5×4×3×2×1 = 720.) After checking that we had grasped the concept, he wrote on the blackboard the expression 7! ÷ 5! and asked us the answer. It’s not too hard: the expression means (7×6×5×4×3×2×1) divided by (5×4×3×2×1), and all the factors from 5 downwards cancel, leaving 7×6 or 42. My hand went up immediately. He waited for other answers, which did not come, and then he asked me. “42,” I said. “Good,” said he, “can you explain to the class how you did it?” “Yes,” said I, “it’s 5040 divided by 120, or you can just cancel.” This was pure showing off. I had computed the answer as 7×6, but I knew beforehand that 7! = 5040 and 5! = 120.
I remember our 1959 school sports day when I was 10. With my physical awkwardness, common in Asperger Syndrome, the only sport I could manage was the flat race, a sprint over about 60 metres. Being of a strongly competitive nature, I always competed in the sprints with great determination, and I really gave every ounce of what I had. Still I always came last by a margin of at least 10 metres. But that is not what I remember the day for. Sports day, for me, meant standing around for a long time with nothing to do but think. And on that day I discovered that (a + b) × (a − b) = a² − b².
I found the transition to Portobello Secondary School at the age of 11 quite easy. I preferred it to primary school because the classes were streamed and so I was in a class with other bright children.
I continued to show off, and on one occasion it backfired badly. In our first‐year Latin class we were learning the verb timeo, which was used as a model for the second conjugation of verbs. Our teacher John Christie explained to us that timeo meant “I fear”, and it could also be translated “I am frightened”. I asked him, in class, whether a better translation for “I am frightened” might be terreor. I had been reading ahead in the textbook: terreor is the passive form of the verb terreo, “I frighten”. Well, John Christie did not like that. In a very loud and angry voice he told me to know my place, not to show off, and not to waste class time by asking questions unrelated to what we were learning. And no, he added angrily, the Romans wouldn’t say terreor: they would say timeo.
John knew my father, and later apologised to him for his heavy‐handedness. But I think the way he dealt with me was reasonable. I was showing off, and I was doing it deliberately. I knew it was wrong, but I was doing it anyway. It was the first time my showing off had met with any reaction from a teacher other than approval, and it was an important lesson for me.
A glimpse of the mathematical landscape
Again when I was 11, our mathematics teacher Richard Brown was teaching us about square roots. He asked us what is the square root of this, and what is the square root of that, and took answers round the class. Then he mischievously asked us, “What is the square root of minus sixteen?” My hand went up immediately, but he took answers from other pupils first, all of them wrong answers like minus four and minus eight. “Yes, Eric?” I replied that there is no number whose square is minus sixteen. “That’s right, Eric. There is no real number whose square is minus sixteen.” I stayed behind after the lesson to ask him why he had said there is no real number whose square is minus sixteen: is there some other kind of number? Richard was delighted: I had swallowed the bait. There and then he introduced me to complex numbers. They were the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. They were a glimpse of the wonderful mathematical landscape that lay ahead of me.
How to learn rugby
It was around this time that I developed another interest: rugby. I got this interest from my father, who had been a good player in his time (he was selected to play one representative game for East of Scotland), and who was by now a referee. I don’t mean that I actually played rugby, of course: that would have been far too rough. Training would have been far too rough also. I rarely went to see matches. I never watched matches on TV. I didn’t take much interest in local or national or international results. I took no interest whatsoever in any of the players.
But I learned the rules, and I learned them thoroughly. Dad and I had endless arguments about what they all meant. For all that he had been a player and a referee and an English teacher, he could be surprisingly illogical in his reading of the Laws. He was sure that “the kick shall be taken behind the mark, on a line through the mark parallel to the touch lines” meant that the ball, once kicked, had to pass through the mark. He told me a joke about a school teacher in China who sent to the UK for a copy of the Laws of Rugby, and wrote again the following month to say, “We’ve all learned these: now please send us tennis.” I reckon he made it up for my benefit.
Sports Day 1961
I well remember our 1961 school sports day when I was 12. That is when I discovered the sum to infinity of a geometric series. I discovered it in the form shown in Figure 1.
I went through secondary school with essentially one friend, a boy whom everybody called “the Professor”. He has recently confirmed to me that he is “far along the autistic spectrum” himself, which is no surprise to me: Hans Asperger himself called children on the spectrum “little professors”. I’ll observe etiquette and not name him here. We were seen as a pair, and we were sometimes mistaken for brothers. On one occasion I was on my own as I passed a group of younger pupils in a corridor. One of them mockingly called out “Hi, Professor!” and another corrected him, “No, the Professor’s the other one.”
As at primary school I believe I was admired by the staff and widely disliked by other pupils. I was constantly subject to low‐to‐medium‐level bullying: I would be tripped up in corridors or pushed back from where I was trying to go. I lived in fear both of the actual bullying and of the prospect of more serious bullying, though it never happened. I did not feel safe in the street, because I saw every teenager I passed as a potential threat. Powerless to gain popularity by making friends, at least I tried to limit my unpopularity by not treading on toes, but on one occasion I was careless. I was in fourth year, aged 15, and I had a poem published in the school magazine. Though it did not name any individuals, it was derogatory about the behaviour of the boys in my year group in general. A group of five or six of them took exception to it and saw the opportunity to put the frighteners on me. They confronted me in an empty classroom, made a show of closing the door, walked round me with a menacing air and told me what they thought. They made no explicit threats. Looking back on it I think they were reasonable young men making a reasonable point, but they knew how they were doing it and they knew how scared I was. Fortunately they also knew I would complain to the staff at the least provocation, and so they were careful not to do or say anything that would give me grounds. But if they had not meant to scare me then one of them could have spoken to me instead of five or six, they need not have used aggressive body language, and they need not have closed the door.
Richard Brown’s death
Richard Brown continued to be my mathematics teacher throughout secondary school. He was the ideal teacher for me and for other pupils with mathematical ability. Throughout secondary school he fed my enthusiasm for mathematics, and in my final year he prepared me well for the University of Edinburgh Bursary Competition. He was in chronic poor health, and in the summer term of 1966, a few weeks before I left school, he died aged 58. I attended his funeral, representing his pupils at the request of the school.
On coming out of the crematorium, I was met by my parents who gave me the news that I had taken first place in the Mathematics section of the Bursary Comp. I find the synchronicity strange and humbling. It was as though Richard was handing on a baton.
The last event of my childhood
It was also in the summer of 1966 that my physical education was made complete, or as complete as it ever would be. This was unplanned. One day I went for a walk on my own to Portobello beach near where we lived. I was 17. Two small boys aged 10 or 11, slim and athletic, were on the flat wet beach playing with a rugby ball. I asked if I might join in, and they made me welcome. (People with Asperger Syndrome often interact better with those much younger or much older than themselves, rather than within their own age group: the social expectations are less.) We threw passes to each other, kicked the ball to each other and generally ran around. One of the boys passed the ball to me, and I jogged towards the sea with the ball in my hands. That is when he hit me from behind.
The little lad had been well coached and it was a textbook tackle. I knew it was a textbook tackle because I had read the textbook. He must have been sprinting at quite a speed, and I didn’t see him coming. His right shoulder thudded into the back of my left thigh, and his thin arms formed a noose round my waist, a noose which rapidly tightened as it slid down my legs and clamped my ankles together like a vice. My legs made no effort to escape, and my body sprawled forwards with as little dignity as a toppling statue: indeed less dignity, for a toppling statue does not flap its arms. I took a mouthful of wet sand.
And, to my astonishment – to my utter, utter astonishment – I was not afraid.
I can identify two reasons. First, I had changed. In my mid‐to‐late teens my physical confidence had been allowed to heal, slowly and naturally, as it was no longer being repeatedly buffeted by adverse events. It was nearly three years since I had last been physically punished, which was early in fourth year for being late for school. Physical education classes at school, which systematically drained my physical confidence instead of building it, were not compulsory after third year, and I had opted out. I had rarely been bullied in my last three years at school, as the boys most likely to do the bullying tended to leave school at 15, and those who stayed on began to mature. I had begun to feel more secure in the street. I had not been seriously frightened since the incident with the school magazine in fourth year. But surely there was a second reason too. My assailant on this occasion was so very much smaller than me that he had not registered in my mind as a threat, and so I was relaxed.
The absurdity of being felled by such a small child was not lost on me. I burst out laughing, and I turned my head just in time to see an apprehensive little face break into a broad grin. I was overwhelmed with admiration for his courage. At his age I would never have dared to rugby‐tackle an 8‐year‐old friend for fear of an accidental knee in my face or a deliberate retaliation, never mind a 17‐year‐old stranger. The three of us played happily for a further quarter hour, without any further body contact.
If I had to identify one single event as the last event of my childhood, that would be it. For perhaps two seconds, on the very threshold of full physical maturity, for the first and only time in my life I enjoyed the fun of childhood rough and tumble. And it had taken a lad of less than half my weight to teach me it.
The next month, I embarked on a four‐year degree course in mathematics at the University of Edinburgh. The years that had been tainted by physical timidity, by constant anxiety and more fear than was good for me, were well behind me. The years that were to be clouded by depression and executive dysfunction lay far in the future. Supported by the practical and emotional security of the parental home, with a clear mind and at the peak of my intellectual powers, I would be free to explore, full‐time, with expert guides, the Platonic realm of pure forms in which God had set me: the universe of number theory, linear algebra, real and complex analysis, group theory, differential equations, set theory, projective geometry, numerical analysis, statistical theory, topology, functional analysis, mathematical logic and so much, much more. The happiest four years of my life were about to begin.